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One thing I forgot: After the pain of parting comes the happiness of healing; rediscover life, friends, self, joy. - Peter McWilliams
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Book Written By: Carrie S. Sanders, M.A., LMHC Psychotherapist Cancer Survivor P.O. Box 3684 Bellevue, WA 98009 voice: 206-313-5683 Enhancing the Human Spirit |
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Facts about breast cancer: - Breast cancer is the most common cancer found in women in the United States.
- 1 out of 9 women will be diagnosed with breast cancer in her lifetime.
- Every 3 minutes there will be a woman diagnosed with breast cancer.
- Each year it is estimated there are 180,000 women being diagnosed with breast cancer in the United States.
How can I help my family member or friend who has just been diagnosed with breast cancer?- Listen to her fears and concerns and avoid comparing her experience, situation, or emotional response to tohers (every woman's experience, situation and response is unique.)
- Help her gather information. Go to her doctor appointments - be a listening ear and/or transcriber. Help her research information and resources so that she can make informed decisions.
- Offer practical help (grocery shopping, cooking, cleaning, etc)
- Be the Rock of Gibraltor - reassure her that she is not a burden to help and don't let her push you away, but respect her wishes for privacy/alone time.
- Treat her as you would want to be treated if you were in a similar situation
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